Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Bullying and its effects on both the Bully and the victim

Bullying is hard on many people, especially the victim. If someone is being bullied at school often then why would that person want to come to school. Their grades could begin to suffer as well as their social life. I think that a bully is a person who does feel that good about themselves and they are a person who needs some closer friends. I think that it is possible that they do not have many close friends and try to interact with other kids by being cruel to them. It also effects the bully. If a person thinks that they can get away with anything then they will try to get away with the sky. I think that if you give them the opportunity, then they will take advantage of you and they will continue to bully. Which is not the right thing to do.

I know that bullying is wrong and we should do everything we can to not do it, but I also think that sometimes we do it without knowing it. One remark can make a person feel awful about them self and it may have been a remark that you did not feel was wrong or out of line. I think that this happens to a lot of people and when and if you realize what you have said or done, you feel awful about it because you did not mean to hurt that person. I also think that bullying can be brought out of mood. If you are in a sour, bad mood then I think that it is easier to say things that you do not mean than if you are in a happy mood. I do not think that a lot of people mean to bully someone and for the people who do bully on purpose are not happy with themselves. Many people will bully and will be bullied in their lifetime and I think that it is normal for human nature to be made upset.

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